Revamping Our Movie Room

Revamping Our Movie Room

When I was house-hunting thirteen years ago, one of the selling points of our chosen home was the finished basement, with a partially-divided large room that would become a fixture for entertaining guests. In the first decade of raising a family here, the room has served us well, especially being able to fill the game room with fun activities and sports memorabilia. The Movie/TV Room however, had changed very little after moving the original sectional that was previously in our townhome living room. The most recent update was adding the nursery leather recliner.

The “Before” photo of the basement movie room

Last summer, however, an opportunity that couldn’t be passed up fell into my lap. As a (very bad) habit, I troll estate sale auction sites for deals, when I found a set of 6 theater room-style recliners that were in great shape, especially when you consider it’s going to a family with tweens and doesn’t want to stress about keeping them pristine. Including the trailer rental, I was able to get all six of them them home for less than $125.

In order to maximize the theater experience, I wanted the back three chairs to be elevated over the heads of the front three. My sister, Christina, and brother-in-law, Tony, gifted me with the lumber (and Tony’s help) in building a platform, using 2×8’s and floor-graded plywood. We cut the wood in the garage and built it right downstairs, then painted it and used adhesive panel carpet for the surface. I applied some led-strip lighting under the small overhang for the finishing touches.

Now that we constructed the platform, we had the excruciating task of carrying the chairs downstairs and setting up the room. Attaching that final chair was a rewarding experience, but it quickly became apparent that the TV, previously on a stand, needed to be mounted on the wall.

While we were at it, I also wanted to focus on darkening the room, replacing the TV-backed maroon wall with Tuxedo Black, as well as some black-out curtains.

The space was starting to come together, but something was still missing. While watching movies is great, I also wanted the room to serve as an entertainment hub in our house during sporting events: “sports bar mode.” To enable this mode, I installed an HDMI splitter and threaded a long HDMI cable behind the wall so that it comes out behind the TV in the game room. This enables the TVs to be in sync when watching sporting events through streaming (both TVs are typically in sync when we watch over-the-air broadcasts).

We could comfortably seat six in the theater chairs, then two more at the bar, but I went back on the hunt to see if I could find a bar-height table behind the theater seating so that people could eat, play a game, or have seat extra people. It took months of trolling Marketplace and Estate Auctions, but I finally found two small tables that fit the bill. Shannon was kind enough to help me get them down the stairs and set up. They are the perfect height to go behind the recliners.

The last piece of the puzzle was building a candy wall. I found the idea on Pinterest and bought a floating frame, peg board, and shelf hooks. I built it over the weekend and had the surprise ready for the girls when they returned on Monday. I’m lucky that the girls like the idea of candy more than the actual candy. They’ve held to the rules we’ve established about only having candy while watching movies and sports.

After over six months of active work (and years of dreaming), here is how the room has turned out (so far).

A panoramic photo of the game room and movie room. Left o right: Arcade, air hockey table, pool table, bar, theater recliners, two bar-height chairs
Santa comes early for divorced families

Santa comes early for divorced families

Last week, Band-Aid’s “Do They Know It’s Christmas?” came back into my life through this Reel/clip of Phil Collins recording the drum tracks for this song. Despite having an ear for drums in songs, I never really appreciated the intricacy of Collins’ part. I can relate to the faces he makes while recording the track.

This is a terrible Christmas song by any means. As much as I admire their desire to give their time and talent to a noble cause, the lyrics are problematic. “Well tonight thank God it’s them/ instead of you” doesn’t ring of holiday cheer. However, I’ve been reflecting on this song, my feelings about this time of year, and its resonance with me.

With my divorce, this will be the second time I won’t be able to be with my daughters on Christmas week. When I experienced this for the first time two years ago, I ended up spending most of the day in bed with crippling sadness. During the previous year, my wife was unraveling our marriage through infidelity, which was at its peak in December. While I didn’t know what exactly was happening at the time, I was desperately trying to save our marriage and shield our kids from home distress. Christmas in the 2020’s have been marred with challenge.

I have yet to find an effective way to counter this struggle, but I have learned that I must start by allowing myself to “feel my feelings” and then find more effective ways to channel them. Lately, it’s been biking on the Peloton.

Two years ago, when I was going through this for the first time, their mom and I agreed that Santa would visit her house and contribute to the “Santa” gifts that would be opened at her home on Christmas morning. Feeling left out, I ended up buying a few extra “from dad” gifts that awaited them upon their return on the second week of Christmas break. When they spent Christmas at my house last year, I handled all of the “Santa” gifts.

This year, I asked the girls how they would like to handle Santa’s gifts, offering the possibility of celebrating the weekend before if they’re like that.

“I think Santa makes some trips before Christmas for families with divorced parents.” Santa visited our house on Friday night, delivering some early Christmas magic.

This morning, I had to hug the girls goodbye for the week. While I’m still working through the season’s sadness, I’m grateful for the grace given to our little family and the ability to share in these experiences, regardless of the day. When I shared this picture with my family, my brother-in-law beautifully responded, “Santa’s got a big heart and always thinks of everyone’s situation.”

I want to think that time will make this easier, but I have my doubts. In the meantime, I appreciate everyone in my life who meet me where I’m at and help me through this season.

Balderramas in California 2024: Ride Reviews

Balderramas in California 2024: Ride Reviews

As I wrap up my posts about our California trip, I wanted to share a fun video I put together. After many rides at Disneyland, I made a point to briefly interview my daughters to see what they thought of each ride. I hope it’ll be fun for their future versions to reflect on this as a bit of a time capsule and relive some memories. However, some of this was too cute to sit on, so I hope they don’t mind indulging me in sharing this. In the video, there’s one ride where Mariana was absolutely not a fan. Enjoy!

Balderramas in California 2024: Days 5-7 – Northern Bound

After a whirlwind four days in Anaheim, we checked out of our room and headed to LAX to fly to San Francisco. My sister Amanda and her family live in San Mateo and were kind enough to host us. The three-leg flight from Denver to LAX to San Francisco was cheaper than a round-trip flight from Denver to LAX. With a mid-afternoon flight, it enabled us to sleep in, get packed up, and have a pleasant flight.

After getting picked up by my brother-in-law, David, we visited their house for the first time; then, we all ventured out to walk around Moss Beach. There, they had these incredibly spooky Cyprus trees that got etched into my mind. All of the kids loved playing in them as well.

My dad also lives in northern Colorado and met us for dinner at the Old Moss Distillery. It was great to see him and catch up.

We headed out to Santa Cruz on Saturday to experience the beach and boardwalk. It was quite a contrast to be at the beach in northern California compared to San Clemente earlier in the week. The colder temperatures didn’t stop the girls from wading into the water and playing along the beach with their cousins. We also enjoyed chocolate-dipped ice cream and a fried potato twist on the boardwalk before having Thai food for dinner that night.

With our trip ending on Sunday, we took the day to play in my sister’s backyard pool and enjoy more family time before boarding the plane to head home.

I wish we could have spent more time in Northern California, but the girls had to return home by Monday morning. We’ll need to plan a return! It was a blessing to travel with my girls, make more memories, and enjoy our time as a family.

Balderramas in California 2024: Day 4 – Back to Disneyland

We were burning the candle at both ends as we woke up early on Thursday after a late night on Wednesday. We aimed to be in the park by opening to catch shorter line waits. We bolted toward the Indiana Jones Adventure, which had incredible detail in its queue area:

There was a family directly behind us whose son was scared of the surroundings, but we happened to have a glowstick in our backpack that we could offer to help alleviate some of his fears. As for the ride itself, we loved it. At one point, a giant boulder was rolling towards us, and the girls were convinced it would hit us. With it being our first ride, we got through the line in less than 20 minutes, including a brief breakdown.

Next was the Big Thunder Mountain Railroad, at the top of Clara’s “Disneyland bucket list” items. The ride did not disappoint and solidified the girls’ love of roller coasters. As soon as we got off, they both wanted to go again later today.

With the park relatively uncrowded, we hit Peter Pan’s Flight, which had the most extended wait thus far. We liked the ride, but the girls didn’t have much of an affinity towards the movie and didn’t appreciate the nostalgic factor of the ride. However, this ride is on the “must do” list for many, so now we can say we did it.

Having completed our “must do” list, the rest of the day was just bonus time – not bad for 10am. We started chasing short lines again, starting with another ride on Micky & Minnie’s Runaway Railway. The queue was much shorter than the other day and we picked up on some other details, including the girls reacting to my “ketchup vs. catsup” dad humor.

Having ridden the ride once before, I got to focus on taking videos of the girls reacting to elements of the ride.

We then went right next door to Roger Rabbit’s Car Toon Spin, which had a longer line than advertised. Given that the girls have no affinity for Roger Rabbit (I haven’t seen the movie), the length of the ride, and the underwhelming of the ride, they were glad to be done.

We decided to take a snack break and bend the “lunch at the hotel” rule in favor of some turkey legs. We purchased three legs, found a shaded bench, and chowed down.

We followed that up with trying Blue and Green Milk at the Star Wars Edge of the Galaxy.

We had one last task before heading to the hotel for our afternoon break. While the girls weren’t too keen on meeting characters (although they’ve reluctantly posed for photos with some), Mariana had her heart set on meeting the Mandalorian (along with Baby Yoda). In her excitement, she colored a picture of Grogu, packed it in her backpack, and brought it all around the park to give to him. Unfortunately, her picture (along with the backpack) got wet during Wednesday’s Grizzly Run River ride, leaving the picture tearing at the creases.

To top it off, we couldn’t find Mando at the scheduled time and place in the app. In frustration, Mariana tore the picture into four pieces and immediately regretted it when she finally saw her favorite character. While emotional, Mariana and I went to the Mandalorian’s handler and asked if we could still give the picture. The cast member was sweet and offered to present the picture with Mariana. I captured it on video:

R2D2 even showed up at the end:

While I was rolling the video, I was simultaneously taking pictures, and I got this shot where it looks like Grogu is giving Mariana’s picture a side-eye. You’ll need to check it out below! At this point, we were more than ready for our afternoon naps.

After an early pasta dinner, we returned to the park at 5 p.m. and immediately ran into Goofy.

All throughout the trip, Clara wanted to ride The Matterhorn. Mariana was highly reluctant, but after doing Space Mountain and Thunder Mountain Railroad, she mustered off the courage and said she would ride with us. I had no choice but to go, but like Mariana, I’ve conquered my fear of roller coasters and enjoyed the ride. They would have wanted to go again if the line weren’t 50 minutes long. However, the line to Thunder Mountain Railroad was only 30 minutes long, so they opted to ride that again and get their coaster fix.

At that point, we were chasing short lines, which made the Mad Hatter Tea Party an appealing ride. We also took this opportunity to tease my girlfriend, Shannon, back home, who could never go on that ride due to motion sickness. However, karma did bite us, as Mariana didn’t feel great after the ride.

I asked the girls if they would be willing to ride my favorite childhood ride: Star Tours. They ended up loving the ride, and the queuing that featured R2D2 and “that gold guy”.

We ended our ride excursion with the Finding Nemo Submarine Voyage, which was a pleasant surprise, especially at night.

Our night was capped off with watching the fireworks and then picking up some souvenirs before closing our time at Disneyland. Both girls got sweatshirts, Mariana got earrings for her newly pierced ears, and Clara got a stuffed Olaf. I must admit that we were all running on fumes as we headed back to the hotel, but luckily, we could sleep in the next day.

More pictures from our last day at the OG Disneyland: